Christian Dating 102 – 6 Months In Talking Stage? Not On My Watch

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On the other side, is a 2 weeks talking stage too short?

I’m wondering if two people choosing to date should be seen more as a clause/a decision. Based on seeing how compatible you are (romance aside). And also, I’m coming to understand why ‘arranged’ marriages are not all that bad. Two people look at their compatibility and figure out if it can work.

God is not the author of confusion.

Real talk brother 🙌🏾

Yeah man, people LOVE to WASTE YOUR TIME! Either they will try to string you along or imitate compatibility (being fake).

Everything you said in this video was on point. The talking stage is as far as I've gotten. It's ROUGH out here!

What urks my nerve is that in my 20's, I met plenty of men that mentioned God and Jesus all over their dating profile, but as soon as I mentioned sexual abstinence until after marriage (which is obvious in scripture) then all of the sudden they were like "Oh, I'm not that serious about God" or they would run. One dude had the nerve to try to misinterpret the Greek for the word fornication to justify bragging about doing it. INSTANT BLOCK.

One guy was a son of two pastors (both his mom and dad were in ministry), but he obsessed talking about oral sex and pepper sprayed a chick in the eyes when a date went wrong…BLOCKED. This would happen for both "Christian" men in and out of the "church" building. Like I said, it's ROUGH out here!

Lol u don't even want to know how long the talking stage was let's just say it's was more than 365 days 🤦🏾‍♀️ But I never expressed my PEW Points…. In the end he left…. 🤷🏾‍♀️

“Any answer that is not a Yes is a No” taking notes 😩✍🏾. God bless you

Thanks for speaking on this.. this is a 101 class on what turns women into cold hard nosed brick walls when a "good man finally comes along".
No need to ask what's your problem who hurt you? Show empathy and assume she likely:
101- Has been led on and dumped
102- Been cheated on
103-Been lied to profusely by multiple men making it hard for her to believe that not all men are liars and out for self..
104- Seen, or experienced DL men that use heterosexual women as covers.
105- Experienced abuse/trauma of some kind, emotional, sexual/rape or physical.

The hard shell is a protection. Quite honestly how many men could go through half the trauma and mismanagement women go through and still pull through with a wink and a smile with a red lip and stiletto as soft feminine and demure as they started??..

And furthermore men as a PSA if you know you that fit in one of the aforementioned categories don't act so obtuse about the issue like you have nooo idea how/ why a woman would feel guarded.

**As foretold Selfishness of mankind would be in the increase in the last days while empathy and love on the decrease.

**LBB I would love for you to do a video on this topic, if you already have please refer me to it.

It’s insaneeeee.. this is so true

Boiiiiiii! Thank God! Situationships ewwww😷 God help us all. Excellent vid Kojo

Oya you know this is coro period drop CD 103 so we can have a solid munch

Lmao you are so funny 🤣 pew pewnnn 🔫

Nothing but FACTSSSSS ✅

Periodttttt!! 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 too many situationships. All these men with their okro mouths oya state your intentions before we can proceed!

I'm old school & a little confused by all of these newish terms.
Is talking stage different to 1)"courting" 2) "Going out with…" 3) "Dating" 🤔

I’m rattled again

Romantic relationship ambiguity is not for me! Not sure where that culture came from, maybe I'm too black and white in the matter.

"He knows I'm about to come for the mandem" 😅

This is actually a really good video and yeah bro I appreciate it. Keep in going!

Wow that facts!! You’re good at explaining and articulating these situations, keep it up!

One of the reasons people stay in talking stage for so long is cos one is interested and keeps making effort but the other simply enjoys the attention from the opposite sex so keeps leading the other on/ responding. Once everyone (from both sides) knows their value doesn’t come from others attention/ opinion but from God, and knows their self worth, then this situation would happen less.

Most of the time people date hoping they are the exception. That is how they fall into the trap.

Too correct✅✅

#saymadness

Dawg these Christian dudes be making a girl wanna go back to the world