When it comes to dating, what is our role? Should we be waiting on God, and if so, what does that even mean? Or, should we be taking initiative, and if so, what does that look like? Do we “let go and let God”? Do we download Christian mingle? HOW SHOULD A CHRISTIAN GO ABOUT MEETING SOMEONE?!

In this video I’m sharing what I think the answer is, and it might not be what you think. 😉

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  1. It makes my heart SO happy to hear what you guys think of this 😊 my hope and prayer is that this perspective brings freedom and removes any guilt or pressure. Thanks so much for watching!

  2. I choose to wait on God; let's allow God to write our love story because it always has a happy ending. Let's be patient enough to wait for the man that God ordained for us because I always believe that God has never been intimidated by our age. He got a word over our lives. Always remember that shallow values produces empty victories.

  3. I’ve given up on finding marriage. It’s too much of a hassle days to get a girlfriend and to please them and hopes of finding a wife. Women are just too too picky and overlook my qualities I have.

  4. God bless you dear this is the exact question that i am confusing & asking people always but now i got the answer thanks. God is the guider for all individual we should ask him. But when i try to take initative i would be guilty.

  5. I think all things work as togethers work, between God and Man/Woman. We have to move towards our goals, and God will put people on our path. At least, that is what I learned through out my life. If you do not expose yourself to others, those potential partners will not walk into your apartment and knock on the door asking you for a date. God is all about openness, courage and determination and those things greatly help out finding someone we want to fall in love into!

  6. Sure love you talking about this subject. It is a very controversial subject. The 127th Psalm in verse one says. Unless the Lord builds the house those that labor labor in vain. Think about God's Will in the matter for you.

  7. So glad I stumbled across this video. I've been so conflicted on whether I should be putting myself out there and actively dating OR just laying low, waiting on God. It's gotten to the point where I would cry every night because I was legit confused and didn't know what path to take. This has helped given me clarity on the matter and something I will definitely pray and seek guidance from God on to clarify which season he has me in! Thank you for the video!

  8. Dear God, please give my future husband strength and wisdom today. Please give him the strength to face the temptations the world lays constantly before him. Help him in his battles and struggles, and please let him know you're beside him at all times. Help him grow stronger in you every day.

  9. Kaci, where are you located and I would love to get to know you. I'm in Winter Haven, Florida and I go to Revival Baptist Church in Clermont, Florida. I love God with all my heart and soul and mind and strength and I will love my future wife like Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. I really hope to find a Godly woman soon. I hope to hear from you soon Kaci. Love Mark 🙏

  10. So more hypothetical wishy washy talk. Long time I was patient and faithful. Passed on some great girls who didn’t believe in God. Ive missed a lot in life under this umbrella. Other than the after life results, for what reason?

  11. Kaci, thanks for posting the videos on dating (and your other video about online dating). I'm in my 50s, been divorced for 20 years, raising my child by myself. He's gown now so I'm wanting to start dating and it's a bit scary, not to mention living in a rural area, so online dating will probably be a must. Thanks again and God bless.

  12. Im 54 and been married more than once. Been cheated on by every women ive dated or married, and ive tried every method to meet a decent female. I think by age 54 if God was going to help it would of happened by now haha

  13. I wish we could think of another way to say “putting yourself out there “. I’m so sick and tired of people telling me that.
    I want to smack the next person who tells me “it’ll happen when you least expect it “. If someone says it to me one more time I swear😡

  14. A bit late to the party but as a 27 y/o woman who has never been on a date (granted, I've only become instrested in the past 5 years or so), I've always heard the phrase "don't chase a man, make him chase you". Has anyone else?

    Am I meant to forget about it completely?; or Does this apply to just the initial stage of the whole process as in putting out the 'feelers'; or Does it encompass the beginning stages as in the dates and stuff? 🤔🤔

    A complete beginner here 🙋🏾‍♀️👋🏾🤭

  15. Very good breakdown and God bless you! You hit the nail on the head in noting that no story is going to be the same and how we can often make the mistake of comparing and trusting in the blessing instead of the Blesser. Both stories you brought up communicate the fact that God is can operate any way He chooses. God is infinite and not finite in being and thought like we humans are.

  16. Dear God🙏♥️💕 in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness.
    I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.
    You said in the bible that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved.
    Right now I confess Jesus as my Lord. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Amen.

  17. The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures,  that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve.  After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,

  18. 🙏“Padre, sé que he violado tus leyes y mis pecados me han separado de ti. Realmente lo siento, y ahora quiero alejarme de mi vida pecaminosa pasada hacia ti. Perdóname y ayúdame a evitar volver a pecar. Creo que su hijo, Jesucristo, murió por mis pecados, resucitó de entre los muertos, está vivo y escucha mi oración. Invito a Jesús a convertirse en el Señor de mi vida, a gobernar y reinar en mi corazón desde este día en adelante. Por favor envía tu Espíritu Santo para ayudarme a obedecerte y hacer tu voluntad por el resto de mi vida. En el nombre de Jesús oro, Amén "

  19. Evangelio para la salvación de tus almas💞💕💜💕❤💞💕💜
    Porque ante todo les transmití a ustedes lo que yo mismo recibí: que Cristo murió por nuestros pecados según las Escrituras, que fue sepultado, que resucitó al tercer día según las Escrituras, y que se apareció a Pedro, y luego a los doce. Después se apareció a más de quinientos hermanos a la vez,

  20. Querido Deus🙏no céu, venho até você em nome de Jesus. Reconheço-te que sou um pecador e sinto muito pelos meus pecados e pela vida que tenho vivido; Eu preciso do seu perdão.
    Eu creio que o seu filho unigênito Jesus Cristo derramou Seu sangue precioso na cruz no Calvário e morreu por meus pecados, e agora estou disposto a abandonar meus pecados.
    Você disse na bíblia que se confessarmos o Senhor nosso Deus e crermos em nossos corações que Deus ressuscitou Jesus dos mortos, seremos salvos.
    Agora mesmo eu confesso Jesus como meu Senhor. De coração, acredito que Deus ressuscitou Jesus dos mortos. Neste exato momento eu aceito Jesus Cristo como meu Salvador pessoal e de acordo com Sua Palavra, agora estou salvo. Um homem.

  21. O Evangelho: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕Pelo que recebi, passei a vocês como de [primeira importância]: que Cristo morreu pelos nossos pecados segundo as Escrituras, que foi sepultado, que ressuscitou ao terceiro dia de acordo com as Escrituras, e que ele apareceu a Pedro e depois aos Doze. Depois disso, ele apareceu para mais de quinhentos irmãos e irmãs ao mesmo tempo,


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