Episode 7 | Why is it such a big deal to meet adult virgins? Why does it seem more acceptable to be sexual than to be abstinent? Join our host, Yvonne Orji, as this week’s guests dive into the discussion of handling sex as a single Christian. ‪#‎P4CMTheConversation‬

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  1. Hallelujah! Amen! V helpful. Also I got blessed by this video for a very different reason as well. The outgoing-ness of the MC shows me I can be all I am too and others can be their selves, eg. Quieter and they’re happy with that.. I’ve struggled with that in the past hahaha 🙂

  2. Beautiful black people living for Jesus what’s not to love?! I used to think I’m not necessarily looking for someone who is also abstinent but actually I am. A person who calls them self a Christian but does not actively want to follow the word of God as best as they can, that is a heart issue and not a man I’m interested in leading me.

  3. I lost my virginity at 22 and have not been with anyone since. That was 7 years ago! Oddly enough, many times girls are embarrassed for not being sexually active because the thought is if a woman isn't having sex, then she can't find anyone. But many women personally wait because they do not want to have multiple sexual partners.

  4. Romans 1:18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who [d]suppress the truth in unrighteousness, 19 because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. 20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, 21 because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things.

    24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.

    26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the [k]woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.

    28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, 30 backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; 32 who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.

  5. When you tell people today that you are celebert or a virgin they think that you crazy or something is wrong with you. We are living in a sex crave generation how do you escape all of this it's on everything and all over the place even on Facebook and the Internet. Women will show you their body on the internet way before you ever talk to them or get to know them. How do you escape this, it hard for a man to keep his mind on God if all he see is women showing their body's all over the place, It's hard for a man to stay strong in the Lord if that is all he sees, let's be real about this,the greatest men in the Bible fell because of the desire of a women and they knew God, are we stronger than them ? Can anyone help me on this ?!!

  6. What about the virgins/celibates that engaged in foreplay without penetration. Are they still marketing for God? If we wanna go according to the the word of God concerning sexual immorality. Just curious


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