We’ve all heard it before, if you’re a Christian make sure to be “equally yoked” and only date another Christian. But how many of you know, just because they are a “Christian” does not mean they are right for you to date.
So today, join Ronnie and Mel as they give you their best Christian dating advice on what to look for in a guy or what to look for in a girl. You want to make sure that you make the right choices when choosing the kind of person to date of the opposite gender, because eventually they may become your boyfriend or girlfriend or maybe even your husband or wife. And you want to have wisdom and some non-negotiables going into those relationship situations to avoid any unnecessary heartbreak, or worse, a falling away from your faith.
So let’s jump in and make sure you can spot if someone is truly a man of God or a woman of God and walking with Jesus in their life.
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Thanks for watching guys! So let us know, what are some of the values you are looking for in dating? Let us know, down below! Also, don't forget to check out the video description for our book recommendations, blogs, and other resources on this topic! Bless you!
What do you think about a man who adds a pornographic woman after the second date and another indecent one after the third one? It made me feel so insufficient. Also, he said it is normal to look at women and to say that a certain woman is cute, that is like looking at a house. I was not able to trust him at all, was I paranoia?
I love you guys! I've been blessed by your content for some time now. My 21 year old step daughter is newly single. I had to share this with her. 🙂 I've been telling her that you two are a great resource for her.
What is your view on men evangelizing to women…I have been in a 9 year relationship.(we are both Christian’s) This has been an issue in our relationship since we started dating! I feel this is something we should do together.
First I check to see if she has money 😂😂😂
real talks. so helpful, thanks!
y’all are amazing! Thank you so so very much for following Gods calling in your lives. Mel you are a perfect example for girls out there of what a woman of God should be like and I just really appreciate you. I am so glad that I ran into y’all’s channel today I know that the Holy Spirit lead me to it. God bless you both <3
This is SOOO GOOD, SOOO PRACTICAL
…THE LORD IS WORTHY TO BE PRAISED THRU YOUR TESTIMONY & TEACHING👍… I'M BELIEVING FOR THE VERRY THINGS YOU MENTIONED, ONLY FOR GOD'S KINGDOM PURPOSES, PTL 👍
May i offer a suggestion to add to your prayers. I always ask this when i pray for i am in a season of singleness, and i ask the Lord to make me a better man so when he chooses to send me the one He chooses i will be prepared for her.
Blessed and thankful for your ministry ❤️God bless you both
God bless you Ronnie for your message, this was a video sent to me randomly and it had an impact on me . God is speaking through you.
I just turned 50 and still single. Because I’m no females type. I have no girlfriend, no wife, no kids. I don’t want anyone anymore. I was born single and I’ll leave this world single.
U said it all but we girls like caring man so I also look if he is caring or not.
Here I am again! This video made me so happy, you guys have no idea! Thank you Jesus💜
I love this! You guys are so great and I’m so grateful that you obey the Holy Spirit to do the Lord’s work! God bless you 💜
" You will know them by their works " ! Not necessarily because they name drop Jesus constantly .
Sound could be better, the voices are so soft.
Just found you guys, and was so encouraged! Thanks for a great video!
The advice in this video really shocked me beyond anything. It is unlike anything I’ve ever heard. It’s crazy how many of our parents don’t even know how to give advice like this. I love this channel so much, it’s almost an oasis to come to when things feel off course. I’m at a dating season in my life right now and wow is it scary. After watching this, I have peace in my heart.
I'm a guy. The values look for in a girl is her being Christian , and preparing to become wife.
Need a Relationship to last religion should be most important!
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS AT HAND !!!!!!!!
BE BAPTIZED IN JESUS NAME, BY WATER AND BY THE HOLY SPIRIT !!!!!
Wow! I AM shocked about the reputation advice. I was not considering that. Thanks from Mexico. Love u guys! 🤗🤗
Thank you so much! So many great points, but particularly that one about finding a man with vision and direction. I’ve noticed a lack of that in someone I had been considering for marriage and you really explained why that’s a big problem. Thank you.
I know since y'all are busy it may take a while for y'all to get back to me. I've been dating a guy and he says he's a Christian but I'm not sure if we're on the same page. He says that he has time with God all day long so he doesn't schedule time out for the Bible. Things have gone farther than they should have physically and now he's telling me because of that. That according to Gods word we should get married. We've been living together for a week or so now and I'm not sure if we're fully equally yoked. I'm not we're I need to be in my relationship with God but I desire it. What should i do?