What does the Bible say about a kingdom spouse? What is a kingdom marriage? And can spiritual warfare block you from your kingdom spouse? Here are 4 signs spiritual warfare is blocking you from your kingdom marriage.

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  1. This is so timely, although posted 3 days ago. Your videos have always rerouted me over the years, my hope and expectations have been restored due to your videos. Thank you 🙏🏽

  2. Well then I guess we’ll have to meet in another lifetime too bad so sad Because I’m pretty sure if it was my “”kingdom spouse no devil in hell could keep him from me because Jesus Christ would not allow it so if that is the case then again I say too bad so sad

  3. Another great video Mark. I too used to believe waiting meant God would do everything for me. However you’ve taught me that being active and applying Biblical principles places me on the right paths for God to work. It’s a partnership of both surrender and obedience.

  4. I honestly cringe whenever I see “Kingdom Spouse” videos come up on my TL. It’s feels like idolatry to me tbh and there was a point in time where I really liked watching those kind of videos but God’s been helping me to focus on Him more. He’s our first love and we have to keep Him at the center of everything. 🙏🏽💖✝️

  5. I do my best to trust God's timing but failing to see any progress has given me doubts about my dreams. I want to find a godly spouse but lack the encouragement or knowledge of what to do? I have never dated so I have no idea what to say and do. I watch your videos hoping for some clarity on what I can do but I'm still confused as ever. Am I supposed to give up on a dream that I have been praying for? I have no friends or church that I can go to for advice and I feel like God is ignoring my prayers.

  6. +++ this sort of “prophesy” videos reminds me of fortune tellers too! I don’t find making changes into directions of other people biblical. Only God can guide us

  7. I didn't believe in kingdom spouse, faith without works is dead, he approached me and i approached him after a separation orgistrated by the creator…I was able discern my god ordained spouse through the signs God showed me and though tarot to confirm

  8. I also advise them to seek counseling/therapy, so they can be delivered from childhood trauma/trauma altogether, focus on doing God's will, and being about their Father's business, and that God knows when and how to bring them together with their kingdom spouse, when the time is right, if it's His will for their lives. It's imperative that people learn to seek God's face for all things. This is technically NOT a one size fits all type of journey. But healing from trauma and certain things in general, letting God teach you how to be a Godly wife or husband, prior to marriage is important, and making it all about God's will and His business is important as a whole. Sometimes the works that GOD IS TRULY SPEAKING OF IS FASTING, PRAYING, STANDING ON AND IN HIS WORD, AND TRUSTING IN HIM AND HIM ALONE. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. We MUST choose to remember that GOD is the same God yesterday, today, and forevermore. And HE have been bringing people together WAY before social media, single conferences, or whatever the case maybe. He can have the person he your delivery driver, or anything. SEEK GOD'S FACE AND GOD'S FACE ALONE WHOLEHEARTEDLY FOLKS. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. I pray you all's strength in the LORD, IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. And I pray that you ALL choose to grow in HIS love, knowledge, wisdom, understanding, peace, joy, and hope. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

  9. And when I advise people to wait on God, and He will bring it together. I mean just that. I tell them about how HE brought Ruth and Boaz together in an unexpected way. They was just going about their day-to-day business, and the Lord allowed them to meet, and they married. Esther and the king came together in an unusual and unexpected way. Even Adam and Eve came together in an unexpected way. I advise this to people that is consumed with claiming that GOD informed them, that HE have something for them. But they are NOT willing to let go of control, and relinquish everything over to God. They are making themselves god and acting like they got it together, and doing any and everything trying to make it happen. They don't want to walk in being patient with and on God. Nor or they exercising trust in Him and Him alone, or whatever the case maybe. They are being very anxious, and not choosing to trust God or His process. There is absolutely a method for His madness.

  10. I would advise people to watch the prayer list. It's based on a true story, and it blessed me. The acting wasn't the best, to be honest. I started to stop watching it, because of that, to be honest. But it's worth watching. Because of how EVERYTHING unfold. I advise this, because this movie is applicable to this subject matter, in a sense.

  11. I didn't listen to many messages pertaining to this subject matter, and I only listened to the people that I felt that the spirit of the Lord led me to listen to at an appointed time. But I never felt led by the spirit of God to be consumed with it, and I also felt led by the spirit of God to fall back from listening to various people on here as a whole. And to focus on interacting with HIM on a one on one basis. He use the word of God, praying, fasting to communicate with me. But HE have also been speaking to me through certain movies, or whatever the case maybe during this season. And I'm SO absolutely grateful for it. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. Like I tell the LORD please forgive me for running away from you for so long, and that it's the most beautiful relationship that I have EVER been in. And that I'm SO grateful for it. It's not that I have anything against men, marriage, or anything. It's that HE have taught me and enabled me to be content with Him and Him alone, and for that I'm grateful. I get weary at times like everybody else, go through doubt at times, or want to give up, or whatever the case maybe. Because we know the flesh always try to creep in and rule over us in one way or another. But I'm grateful to GOD for giving me the strength, hope, love, insight, will, desire, to serve Him, love on Him, surrender to Him, and stay in position and relationship with HIM. It's one of the best decisions that I have EVER made, and it's one of the most beautiful things that I have EVER did for myself. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH.

  12. Mmmmmmmm. Brother thank you SO much for sharing this information. I believe that the spirit of the Lord led some people to teach on this topic, and to prophesy about it. But many people came along and distorted this message, and ONLY started to teach on this subject matter. Because they knew it would grow their platform, get a lot of likes, shares, and views because of it. Because they wanted to get money, attention/fame, or whatever the case maybe. And they was relying on people that refuse to choose to grow in Christ, and in His word, and that have itchy ears pertaining to this subject matter, to be successful in this.

  13. God knows what's best. I'm going to keep on pressing in to gods blessing. No man can stand in between what God has for me ! So instead of fusing ,and worrying I put all things in my father ✋👐 . The Bible says faith without works is dead! Know this what God has for me it is just for ! I have now faith and I stand on God's words .My God is not a God whom shall lie. If you 📚 read your Bibles ,you would know this! What ever God has for me he will bring it forth in his divine time .God's timing is prefect!

  14. This is a great video. The only thing I don’t agree with is the point about people saying “someone listening to this is going to get married/healed etc” is wrong.

    1 John 2:27 tells us that
    “As for you, the anointing you received from him remains in you, and you do not need anyone to teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about all things and as that anointing is real, not counterfeit—just as it has taught you, remain in him”

    This means, that if a word speaks to you and is anointed it is God speaking through that person is relevant to you. You know when you hear it. It will jump out to you or bear witness in YOUR spirit. It is then your responsibility to steward that word. Yes wait, but if it doesn’t come to pass ask God if there is something you need to do in the process to be prepared (deal with a character flaw/be in obedience/move somewhere etc).

    I have had God do miracles through people on YouTube saying “God is going to do etc etc for you” and that was God speaking to me and it came to pass.

    You may need to ask God for a couple confirmations until you are familiar (and certain) how He leads you. But once you learn, that anointing will guide you in all things.

    It will even teach you when things are off in a ‘word’ or if you just really want something to happen.

    God bless 🙏🏼

  15. I just come out of a 2 year relationship and I am devastated and broken.
    Do Kingdom spouses exist? Does anyone here have a spouse that you believe was chosen by God?
    Right now I am confused, I just feel lost, hurt and heart broken

  16. Starting to wonder if I'm focusing to much on trying to get rid of my desire for marriage. Its caused me nothing but problems at this point in my life and is so tightly wound around my self esteem it feels impossible to get rid of. I wish I could make my soul crushing desire for marriage go away more than anything, it's the source of so many of my problems. I want to live for God more than anything but the thoughts are there everyday…. distracting me. It's been torture.

  17. John 16:33

    English Standard Version

    33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

  18. I'm so guilty of all these. I'm so sorry Lord. Thank you Pastor Mark for speaking the truth. I'm tired of focusing only on a kingdom partner coz I wasn't focusing on God. I'm starting prayer and fasting rn and decided to REALLY focus only on God and on expanding His kingdom. I'm excited to get to know His heart more and more and serve my Lord.🤩😆

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